Tip #37: Lend a Helping Hand

If you can’t feed a hundred people, then just feed one.”
-Mother Teresa

Helping others is typically defined as a selfless activity. The truth is that helping others can do as much for the giver as it does for the recipient. Not only does the act of lending a helping hand make you feel good, it also provides a good deal of perspective. Your general outlook is altered as your focus turns outward. In addition, the idea that – regardless of your situation or personal challenges – you have something to contribute is very empowering.

Now, think of someone who needs a helping hand. This does not need to be a huge undertaking like feeding the hungry – help takes many forms. Perhaps a sick friend needs groceries or a neighborhood park requires tending. Think how powerful you will feel when you are easily able to solve, what to others, may be a difficult problem. Will you have time to concentrate on your own issues as you shop for flu-friendly soup and juice? Will you feel renewed and energized as you clean up a park and restore nature’s beauty?

Giving wholeheartedly will fill your heart and mind with positive thoughts and feelings. It is an easy way to adjust your perspective, feel good about yourself, and address a need. Look around – you are bound to find someone or something that could use your help!

Take Home Message:

We all have something to give, no matter what.

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