Tip #38: Say Nice Things About Others

You can gain more friends by building people up than you can by tearing them down.”
-Sasha Azevido

Remember that oft-repeated advice you heard from parents and teachers as a kid? “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.” This bit of wisdom applies not only through childhood, but well into the adult years. It is not only inherently kind, but also helps to earn the respect and friendship of those around you.

Now, during your next conversation, make it a point to say something complimentary about someone else. Whether you’re heralding their great sense of humor, incredible wardrobe, or strong work ethic, authenticity is key – this exercise is most effective if you take the time to choose a quality that you truly admire.

Some may claim that speaking kindly of others is simply good karma, but it also helps you forge stronger friendships by creating an air of positivity and goodwill. As an added bonus, the person you’re talking with is likely to associate the commendable traits and qualities you’re praising with you as well.

Take Home Message:

By praising the good qualities of others, you’ll foster a positive aura that will allow you to create and build better friendships.

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