‘Mindfulness’ Daily Tips:

Tip #56: Let Go of a Grudge

August 14th, 2009

Even within the space of an hour, the weight of a grudge can drag you down – leaving you with little will to look up and smile at a friendly passerby. The effort wasted on holding a grudge will likely sap you of the strength and energy that you need to live – right now!

Now, reflect for just a few minutes and see if you are in fact bearing a grudge – even a tiny one. Try utilizing your inner strength to let go of the grudge (i.e., overpower the grudge). Even a small grudge will feed upon itself and can turn into a monolith! Now who would want to carry that around? It can be exhausting. Driving your car to work; racing around the grocery store at closing time; going to the cinema; attending your best friend’s birthday party – all with a monolith strapped to your back. It’s unnecessary as well as completely and utterly exhausting.

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Tip #54: Be an Adventurer

August 12th, 2009

The idea of an adventure conjures up images of safari hats, jungles, and death-defying escapes. However, being an adventurer in your life is far less risky. Adventurers welcome the unknown and seek out new experiences. Being an adventurer is an attitude – it puts fear behind curiosity and exploration. Trying new things can be scary, but it can also expand your knowledge, broaden your areas of interest, and build your confidence.

Now, think of something of in your life that you have always wanted to do, but were hesitant to try. Maybe it’s a vacation to an unfamiliar place. Perhaps it is learning to snowboard. Maybe it is a first time visit to an ethnic restaurant. Instead of focusing on your fear or uneasiness, consider the possibilities! Even if your trip down a new trail does not lead to success, you can be proud that you were brave enough to try something new and different. So, put on your safari hat and go on an adventure today!

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Tip #50: Let Go of Worry

August 6th, 2009

It seems normal to be concerned about what negative things might happen in the future. While it is prudent to take steps to avoid problems or conflicts, there is no benefit in worrying about things that you cannot control. If there is a challenge in your future, worrying about it will only deplete the energy you will need to overcome it.

Now, think of a time that you worried about something. It could have been something that you knew was going to happen, or it could have been something that you only thought might happen. Did your worry and anxiety alter the event? Did your apprehension add anything positive to your life? The act of worrying can actually make things worse!

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Tip #39: Choose Freedom

July 22nd, 2009

Perseverance and courage help you overcome obstacles as you meet them. Face these stumbling blocks, even when you have to say, “I’ll try again tomorrow.” Remember that you have the freedom to make mistakes. It’s okay to start over or take a few steps backwards.

If you’re not choosing freedom, you’re choosing fear. Your natural state is one of happiness, health, and abundance. If you are living without these, you are likely sacrificing your quality of life. Is a fear-driven life worth this sacrifice?

Now, choose to free yourself of old habits of thinking that no longer serve you. Write down something that you feel is beyond reach due to fear, a fear of failure, a fear of imperfect. Then, decide that you choose freedom. Free yourself of this fear and take one step towards that “something” you wrote down. Begin moving forward now!

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Tip #36: Be a Life Student

July 17th, 2009

I strongly believe that knowledge is power. Learning never ends. “Life learning” happens outside the classroom. It’s the attempt to digest new information about our life, the lives around us, and the society in which we live. Knowledge is learned by living life each day with mindful awareness.

Now, take a moment to reflect on the thoughts running through your mind. It’s often hard to learn or think deeply about life in the moment due to our inner chit chat. So acknowledge these thoughts, but then take a deep breathe and acknowledge an inner sense of calm. Then, begin to explore your questions. Practice embracing new knowledge and greater awareness.

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